Some say
change is inevitable, others say change is necessary, and many say change is
the most constant thing in the world. What is change anyway? How we should deal
with it? What happens when things don't change?
JAKARTA - November 30th, Kebayoran Baru, Namarina studio 1.
It was rainy season in Indonesia and combined with the weekend, it caused
traffic jam all over Jakarta. But it didn't change their consistency to do
their routines. Listen to the World held the 36th Offline Series at Namarina
Kebayoran. It coincided with LttW's 3rd year anniversary, the topic discussed
was about ‘change', which was titled, "Change Is A Must, Isn't It?"
It started later than the usual, precisely at 09.15 pm, and the forum began
with greetings and introduction by the team and the audiences. Pattraditya
Pangestu supported by Aryo Adhianto moderated the discussion. The goal of the
discussion is to build a better understanding, taking into consideration the
meaning, purpose, and characters of "change" around us.
The first session of the discussion was equating our
perception about change. In the second session we tried to build a better
sensibility, by showing three examples. First, was Marzuki Hasan who usually
goes by Pak Uki - the unchanged man in changed settings, the second was Gringsing - the struggling aspect of the
Tengananese's (East Bali, Indonesia) tradition between the change and
unchanged, and last was Jakarta, examples of the almost changing things around
us, closed by music performance by Lukito Hartawan (acoustic guitar) and Aga
(harmonica) playing Blues. The third
session was a process for the forum to build a comprehensive and better
understanding about change; by discussing the choices we have, on the things
that have to change and the things that do not have to change? Or do we
understand the consequences of change? In purpose to understand the meaning of
change was mutually agreed.
To change
or not, is entirely up to what we want
We learnt from Pak Uki that change doesn't have to happen
for certain things. Wherever he went, whoever he's with, he never changed. He
was always himself, carries his Acehnese in order to spread the value of
beauty, love, and brotherhood to the world. On the other hand, in today's
condition while the value of Gringsing
is now seen not only as the outcome of the set of systems within a culture, but
also as the means of production to make a living* (LttW article - "Gringsing amid Changing Times",
Adikara Rachman, 2012). Gringsing tells
us that we have got to fully understand the consequences of change. And if we
let certain things change without knowing the consequences, a good example is
Jakarta. A city that is changing rapidly and almost completely, where
complaints are never absent while the residents are too busy doing their
"business". If we still do not realize what we have been doing and
missing, then how can this city ever be calm? How can the complaining ever be converted
into proper actions?
With our limited understanding of change itself-what and
where is the ground, in what area (spirit and/or manifestation) and the meaning
of "towards a betterment," also the ongoing tradition of asking about
the ongoing issues and problems-we still didn't have the perspective, about
what should have changed, and what shouldn't. Some people will eventually try
to change when they realize the situation is no longer ideal, while others are
afraid of the consequences of change, pretending as if nothing has happened,
even when changes can no longer be avoided. What is even more painstaking is when
we realize that our situation is not getting any better, but worse, yet we
still think of our own needs and ego. With this kind of situation arises
questions such as "is there a better place to live, if we just keep
thinking about our own self?" Or, "will our lives be better if we
start to think about others?" But the main question is, instead of
building mutually beneficial relationships, will we ever reach a better life by
ignoring one another in order to protect one's self interest? Well, I guess this
situation is the only thing that hasn't change since I was a kid. And sadly,
this may take a while.
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